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Body-Centered Therapy

Healing That Starts
In the Body

Sometimes what's happening inside you doesn't have words yet. Somatic therapy works with the body's wisdom — not just the mind — to reach what talk therapy alone can't always touch.

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What Is Somatic Therapy?

Your Body Has Been Keeping Score

Most of us are taught to process emotions through thinking — to analyze what happened, understand why, and talk it through. And that can help. But for many people, especially those carrying trauma, chronic stress, or anxiety, the experience lives somewhere deeper than words can reach.

Somatic therapy is a body-centered approach that pays attention to physical sensations, breath, posture, movement, and nervous system responses as sources of information — not problems to be managed, but signals to be understood.

"The body holds what the mind has not yet been able to process. Somatic therapy creates the conditions for that processing to finally happen."

This doesn't mean you'll be asked to do anything unusual or uncomfortable. It means we bring awareness to the whole of your experience — not just the story you tell about it, but how it actually lives in you right now.

How It's Different

More Than Just Talking

Traditional talk therapy works primarily with thoughts and narrative. Somatic therapy adds a layer — noticing what's happening in the body during a session and using that information to go deeper, move through stuck places, and build genuine regulation from the inside out.

Rooted in Research

Evidence-Based & Clinically Grounded

Somatic approaches are supported by decades of research on trauma, the nervous system, and how the body stores and releases stress. Practitioners like Bessel van der Kolk, Pat Ogden, and Alexander Lowen have shaped a robust clinical framework that informs this work.

What It's Not

No Breathwork Performances. No Pressure.

Somatic therapy is subtle, collaborative, and paced entirely to you. We don't push the body into anything. We listen to it — and follow what it already knows how to do.

What It Helps With

When the Body Holds the Key

Somatic therapy is particularly effective for experiences that have a physical dimension — where the nervous system, not just the thinking mind, is part of what needs to heal.

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Anxiety & Nervous System Dysregulation

Anxiety isn't just a thought pattern — it's a state the nervous system gets stuck in. Somatic work helps you build real regulation: not just managing symptoms, but shifting the underlying pattern.

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Trauma & PTSD

Trauma lives in the body long after the mind has "processed" what happened. Somatic therapy works with the nervous system's stored responses — slowly and safely — to help the body finally complete what it couldn't at the time.

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Chronic Stress & Burnout

When you've been running on empty for too long, the body pays the price. Somatic work helps you come back into contact with yourself — your needs, your limits, and your capacity to actually rest.

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Emotional Numbness & Disconnection

Feeling cut off from your emotions — flat, distant, or like you're watching your life from behind glass — often has somatic roots. This work gently reopens the channel between body and feeling.

Who It's For

This Might Be For You If…

Somatic therapy tends to be especially powerful for people who have already done "the work" cognitively — and yet something still feels stuck, unreachable, or unresolved.

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You've talked about it — but still feel itYou understand what happened. You've processed it in therapy before. And yet your body still reacts like it's happening now.

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You feel things physically before you feel them emotionallyTight chest before a difficult conversation. Exhaustion that shows up before you've acknowledged stress. Your body speaks first.

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You feel numb, flat, or disconnectedYou know something is wrong, but you can't feel it. Emotions feel far away, muted, or simply absent.

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You're a neurodivergent client who processes differentlyFor many neurodivergent people, somatic awareness is a powerful alternative to purely verbal processing — more aligned with how the nervous system actually works.

A Note on Fit

Somatic therapy isn't the right fit for everyone — and that's okay. During our free consultation, we'll talk about what you're looking for and whether a body-centered approach makes sense for where you are right now. There's no pressure to commit to a modality before we've had a chance to connect.

Somatic Therapy Online

Yes — Somatic Therapy Really Does Work Online

If you're skeptical about whether body-centered work can actually happen over a screen, you're not alone. It's one of the first questions I get. Here's the honest answer.

The common concern"How can you do body-centered work over video? Doesn't somatic therapy require being in the same room?"

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The Body Is Already in the Room

Your nervous system, your breath, your posture, your physical sensations — they're all present in the session whether we're on video or in person. The body doesn't need to be physically close to me to be part of the work. I'm trained to track and respond to somatic cues through a screen.

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Your Home Can Be a Therapeutic Asset

Being in your own space often makes somatic work more accessible — not less. You're in an environment where you already feel some baseline safety. You can adjust the lighting, use a familiar blanket, sit in your favorite chair. That comfort supports the nervous system rather than working against it.

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Somatic Work Is Collaborative — Not Hands-On

Somatic therapy in this context is not touch-based. We work with breath, awareness, movement, posture, and sensation — all of which are fully accessible online. I guide; you experience. The screen changes the setting, not the depth of the work.

What do I need to participate in online somatic therapy?

A private space where you can speak freely, a stable internet connection, and a device with a camera. That's it. Some clients like to have a blanket or comfortable chair nearby — but there's no special setup required.

Is online therapy as effective as in-person?

Research consistently shows that online therapy produces comparable outcomes to in-person therapy for most clients and concerns. For somatic work specifically, many clients find telehealth sessions surprisingly effective — and the comfort of their own environment actually supports the nervous system work.

Is the platform secure and confidential?

Yes. I use a HIPAA-compliant, encrypted video platform. Your sessions are private and protected. You'll receive a secure link before each appointment — no apps to download, no accounts to create.

Where in California can I access sessions?

I'm licensed to provide therapy to clients anywhere in California. Whether you're in San Diego, Los Angeles, the Bay Area, or anywhere else in the state, you can access sessions online.

My Approach

How I Work Somatically

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Bioenergetic Somatic Therapy

Rooted in Bioenergetic Analysis, I work with the body's energy, movement, and breath to release chronic tension patterns and emotional holding. This approach recognizes that the body and psyche are inseparable — and that lasting change happens when both are engaged together.

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EFT & Attachment-Based

Somatic work doesn't happen in isolation. I weave Emotionally Focused Therapy and attachment theory throughout — so the body work is always in service of deeper emotional connection and security.

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IFS-Informed Parts Work

Sometimes what we feel in the body belongs to a particular "part" of us — a protector, a young wound, a place that learned to brace or shut down. IFS helps us meet those parts with curiosity rather than judgment.

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Polyvagal-Informed

Understanding how the autonomic nervous system regulates safety, connection, and threat responses is foundational to my work. We use this map to understand your patterns — and find new ways through them.

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Always Paced to You

Somatic work is never rushed. We go at the speed your nervous system can actually integrate. Titration — working in small, manageable doses — is a core principle. We don't push into overwhelm; we work at the edges of your window of tolerance.

My Dual Background:
Therapy & Acupuncture

Before becoming a therapist, I trained and practiced as a licensed acupuncturist — a path that gave me a deep, embodied understanding of how the body holds stress, trauma, and emotional experience.

That background informs everything about how I work somatically. I'm not learning to pay attention to the body from a textbook. I've spent years listening to it — in a different context, but with the same fundamental orientation: the body knows, and it's worth following.

My therapy practice is currently online only. But the body-centered approach I bring to every session is shaped by years of hands-on work with the physical dimensions of human experience.

What to Expect

What a Somatic Session Actually Looks Like

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We Start by Talking

Sessions often begin with what's present for you — what's happened since we last met, what you're noticing, what feels alive right now. This grounds us and helps me understand where to go.

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We Slow Down and Notice

At some point I might invite you to pause — to notice what's happening in your body as you speak. A tightening. A heaviness. A sense of expansion or contraction. This is where somatic work begins: not in analysis, but in awareness.

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We Work With What We Find

Once we've located something in the body, we work with it — gently and collaboratively. That might mean tracking a sensation as it shifts, noticing an impulse, adjusting posture, or using breath to stay present. Always at your pace.

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We Integrate

Somatic sessions usually end with some time to settle — to allow the nervous system to integrate what happened. This might look like stillness, a check-in about how you're feeling, or a simple grounding practice to carry into the rest of your day.

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Ready to Begin?

Your Body Has Been
Waiting to Be Heard

Start with a free 15-minute consultation. We'll talk about what's been happening and whether somatic therapy might be a good fit for where you are right now.

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Or call / text Maring: 619-387-8725

Maring Higa, AMFT

Neurodivergent-affirming couples and individual therapy. Somatic healing. Couples retreats. Serving San Diego and all of California online.

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Maring Higa
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Maring Higa
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Wed 13:00 to 18:00
Fri 13:00 to 18:00
Sat 09:00 to 14:00