Somatic Psychotherapy · Online Across California

Your Body Knows What Your Mind Can't Yet Say

After years of being in relationships, work, or life situations that asked you to disconnect from yourself, your body is still holding that story. Tightness in your chest. Numbness in your limbs. A persistent sense that something's not right - but you can't quite name it.

Somatic therapy brings your body back into the conversation. We listen to what it's been trying to tell you all along.

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You've Done the Talk Therapy.
But Something Still Feels Stuck in Your Body

Talk therapy is powerful for understanding your story. But our nervous systems don't only live in words - they live in sensation, breath, movement, and the way we hold ourselves in the world. Somatic work adds another layer. It helps your body feel safer, notice what it's been holding, and find its own information about what comes next.

Who I Work With

This Is For You If...

You Carry Stress in Your Body

Tension that won't release. Breathing that feels shallow. A sense that your nervous system is always braced for something bad. Somatic work helps your body learn that it's safe to settle.

You're Disconnected from Your Feelings

You know intellectually what you should feel, but your body feels numb or empty. Somatic awareness helps you reconnect with what's actually alive in you.

You Have a History of Relational Harm

Betrayal, abuse, abandonment - these leave imprints in the nervous system. Body-centered work helps you metabolize what happened and find safety again.

You're Neurodivergent & Words Aren't Enough

For many ADHD and autistic adults - especially those who experience overwhelm, shutdown, sensory sensitivity, or difficulty naming internal states - the body offers a more direct doorway in. Somatic grounding gives your nervous system something concrete to work with.

Body-centered somatic therapy: breath, sensation and grounding

Understanding the Approach

What Is Somatic Therapy?

Somatic therapy is based on a simple understanding: you can't separate the mind from the body. They're one system. Your nervous system holds memories, stress, and patterns in your physical being - not just in your thoughts.

When something difficult happens, your body learns protective strategies. It tightens. It numbs. It braces. Over time, these become habitual. Your body stays in a state of vigilance even when the danger has passed.

Somatic work gently invites your nervous system to notice what it's holding, understand why, and begin to loosen it. We work with breath, awareness of sensation, gentle movement, and grounding - so your body can find its way back toward safety.

Before I became a therapist, I spent 17 years as an acupuncturist. Nearly two decades of working with bodies every day taught me how stress, emotion, and old experiences show up physically - and how to work with that patiently. That background informs everything I do in somatic therapy.

What to Expect

How Somatic Therapy Works

Notice & Name

We develop awareness of what's happening in your body right now - where you feel tension, where you feel numb, how your breath moves or doesn't.

Explore & Understand

Together we explore what your nervous system learned to do and why. What was it protecting you from? What does it still need to know?

Settle & Integrate

Using breath, gentle movement, and grounding practices, we help your nervous system unwind. You integrate new patterns - ones that feel safer and more alive.

Why This Matters

Why I Include the Body in Therapy

Some things are easier to notice through sensation than through words. Somatic work isn't a replacement for talking - it's another doorway into the same work.

01

It Reaches What Words Can't

Some memories and patterns live below language. Your body often knows things your mind hasn't caught up to yet. Somatic work meets you there.

02

It Gives the Nervous System Something Concrete

Breath, sensation, and grounding are things you can actually feel and practice - in session and between sessions. For many clients, that makes the work more usable in daily life.

03

It Fits Many Neurodivergent Nervous Systems

For clients who experience overwhelm, shutdown, sensory sensitivity, or trouble identifying what they're feeling, paying attention to the body can be more accessible than starting with words. We find the entry point that works for you.

04

It's Deeply Respectful

We never push or force. I follow your body's pace. You're in charge of what you're ready to explore.

Common Questions

Questions About Somatic Therapy

What is somatic therapy?
Somatic therapy treats the mind and body as one system. Stress and old experiences show up physically, as tension, numbness or bracing. We work with breath, sensation, gentle movement and grounding so your nervous system can notice what it's holding and settle.
Can somatic therapy be done online?
Yes. Breath, sensation and grounding work well over video, and you stay in your own space, which many clients find easier to settle in. Sessions are online via Google Meet for clients anywhere in California.
Is somatic therapy helpful for ADHD or autistic adults?
Often, yes. For people who experience overwhelm, shutdown, sensory sensitivity or trouble naming what they feel, starting with the body can be more accessible than starting with words. We find the entry point that works for you.
Will there be touch, or do I have to move a lot?
No touch. Sessions are online. Any movement is gentle and optional, and you decide what you're ready to explore.
Can somatic work be part of couples therapy?
Yes. Somatic awareness is woven into couples sessions and retreat intensives, helping each partner notice what happens in their body when things get tense.
What is bioenergetic therapy?
Bioenergetic analysis is a body-centered psychotherapy that looks at how emotional patterns show up in breathing, posture and muscle tension. I completed Bioenergetic Somatic Training in San Diego (2021-2025) and draw on it throughout my work.

Couples Work

Neurodivergent Couples Therapy

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Individual Work

Individual Neurodivergent Therapy

Somatic regulation is woven into every session. Learn more →

Ready to Listen?

Your Body Has
Something to Say

Start by telling me a little about what's going on. I'll reach out within 24 hours with a link to book a free 15-minute call, and we can talk about what somatic work might look like for you.

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Or call / text Maring: 619-387-8725

Maring Higa, AMFT

Neurodivergent-affirming therapy for couples and individuals. Somatic and relational. Online across California; couples retreats in San Diego.

Associate Marriage & Family Therapist #145908
Supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, LMFT #53452

Services

Neurodivergent Couples Therapy Individual Therapy Couples Retreats Somatic Therapy Partner Support

Contact

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